>Yes but that's when they actually interract with girls. I don't get any convo with girls. The girl that is at the ranch won't even look at me in the eyes she seems to just tolerate me.
(Apologies for the double post)
Nano, my personal advice is to at least try to know the girl. See what she likes, ask her about her, what she likes and practice your small talk. Don't be afraid if you come across a little awkward, but do "keep a distance" if that makes sense in the beginning. Practice makes perfect and remember...
NO PEDO TALK!
Statistically you'll crash and burn more often than you don't. The real goal is to at least try and talk to her and don't leave the impression at the end of the conversation that you're just shy and awkward, not a "basement incel creep", if that makes any sense. I used to be shy and awkward in by early teens and there were girls that liked that because they like guys that kiss and DON'T TELL. There's a market for you; all you need to do is find it. There's more girls out there than you'd think that are into age play and girls that want "an older guy" to show her the "ropes".
I'm no "hebe whisperer"; I'm just relaying what I've learned from my experiences.